Stand Up Straight and Look ‘Em in the Eye: Confidence Without Arrogance


I’ve been around long enough to see a lot of people fumble through life because they either didn’t believe in themselves or thought they were better than everyone else. There’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance, and let me tell you—standing tall and looking someone in the eye will get you a long way if you keep it on the right side of that line.

1. Posture Speaks Volumes

Standing up straight isn’t just about looking good—it’s about how you feel. When your shoulders are back and your chin is up, you send a signal to the world that you respect yourself. And when you respect yourself, others will too.

2. Eyes Tell the Story

Looking someone in the eye doesn’t mean staring them down—it means engaging, being honest, and showing you’re present. People trust those who meet their gaze with sincerity. Arrogance comes when you look down on someone, not when you meet them head-on.

3. Confidence Without Bragging

You don’t need to boast about your accomplishments. A quiet, steady confidence—knowing what you’re good at and owning it without rubbing it in—goes further than any loud claim. Remember: humility makes your confidence shine brighter.

4. Practice Makes Permanent

Confidence isn’t something you’re born with—it’s something you practice. Start small: greet people with a firm handshake, make eye contact during conversations, and stand tall even when no one’s watching. Over time, it becomes second nature.

Confidence is about showing up fully without stepping on anyone else. Stand tall, look people in the eye, and let your character speak louder than your words.

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About Terry McDaniel

What motivates me? 1. Fun. 2. Learning. 3. Blessing and prospering people before profit. 4. Being the hero.
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