You asked me a big question the other day: “Grandpa, how do I find my passion?”

I saw that look in your eyes—full of curiosity, maybe a little pressure too, like you’re supposed to have it all figured out. Let me tell you something right now: you don’t have to have all the answers yet. Most people don’t. But I’ll share what I’ve learned in my years.

1. Look for the Spark, Not the Bonfire

Passion doesn’t always start out loud. It’s not always a lightning bolt or a trumpet in the sky. Sometimes it’s just a little spark—something that makes you lose track of time, or smile without trying. Follow that spark. Feed it. See where it leads. That’s where passion begins.

2. Remember What Lit You Up as a Kid

Think back to what made you happy before the world told you what you should do. Drawing, building, helping people, asking questions, reading, dancing? Your younger self was onto something. Listen to her.

3. Try Things—Even If You’re Not Good at Them Yet

You’re not going to find your passion by sitting still and waiting for it to show up. Try things. Volunteer, take a class, shadow someone you admire. Some things you’ll love. Others you won’t. But every experience teaches you something.

4. Your Passion Might Change, and That’s Okay

Life isn’t one straight path. What you love at 20 might not be what you love at 40. And that’s the beauty of it. You’re allowed to grow and change. Follow the trail, even if it winds.

5. Don’t Let Fear Keep You Still

You’ll hear a voice sometimes—maybe in your head, maybe from others—that says you’re not good enough, or it’s too late, or it won’t work. Don’t listen to it. That voice is afraid. Be brave enough to move anyway.

Final Word from Your Grandpa:
Passion isn’t something you find like buried treasure. It’s something you grow—like a garden. You water it, give it light, and pull a few weeds along the way.

Live with curiosity, keep your heart open, and don’t rush it. You’re already on the right path, and I couldn’t be prouder.