A letter if you are having a tough time…

With a smile on your face and curiosity in your heart. I’ve been thinking about you a lot lately and wanted to share a few things with you that I’ve learned in my time. These are just simple thoughts, but I hope they’ll help you as you journey through life.

1. Take Your Time

Life sometimes moves quickly, and it can feel like there’s always something to rush toward. But remember, there’s no need to hurry through it all. Take time to appreciate the little moments—the sound of birds in the morning, the warmth of a hug, the joy of a good book or a conversation with a friend. The world will wait for you, my dear, and the best things come when we slow down and savor them.

2. Be Kind

Kindness costs nothing but means everything. Whether it’s a smile, a kind word, or helping someone without expecting anything in return, kindness is something that can change the world. When you’re kind, you not only help others, but you also fill your heart with joy.

3. Learn from Mistakes

You’ll make mistakes, and that’s okay. I’ve made plenty in my time. The important thing is to learn from them. Mistakes aren’t failures—they’re lessons. And every time you stumble, you get back up a little stronger and wiser.

4. Chase Your Dreams, But Don’t Forget to Enjoy the Ride

I know you’ve got big dreams, and I am so proud of you for reaching for the stars. But don’t forget to enjoy the journey. Dreams are wonderful, but the moments along the way—when you’re learning, growing, and experiencing new things—are what truly make life special.

5. Family is Everything

There will be times when you might feel like you’re alone, but always remember: you have family who loves you, unconditionally. Our love for you doesn’t change no matter what happens. You’re never alone, sweetheart. Your family is always here for you, no matter the distance or time.

6. Take Care of Yourself

I want you to know that your health—both physical and mental—is precious. Don’t take it for granted. Eat well, exercise, and take time for yourself. And remember, it’s okay to ask for help when you need it. Don’t let pride keep you from taking care of yourself.

7. Laugh Often

A good laugh can heal a rough day and lighten any mood. Don’t take life too seriously. If you make a mistake, laugh it off. If things don’t go as planned, find the humor in it. Life is so much easier when you can laugh at yourself and the little mishaps along the way.

8. Follow Your Heart

Above all, follow your heart, my dear. It will always guide you in the right direction. Whether you’re making a decision about school, friends, or what makes you happy—trust your instincts. You have everything you need within you to make the right choices.

I am so proud of the person you’re becoming. You bring so much joy to everyone around you, and I can’t wait to see all the amazing things you’ll do. I’m always here for you, cheering you on, and ready to lend a hand or a listening ear whenever you need me.